Wiserwebhosting looks pretty spot-on, just like you suggested, thanks.

You're right that their lack of SMTP support might be a show-stopper though; I will have a connection-only ISP.

Throwing this subject open:
They mention installable SMTP packages that will allow me to send SMTP mails locally but I've drawn a blank so far investigating this so the jury is still out.

I'm curious now; assuming that i get a package to send SMTP email, how will the message appear to the recipient? What I mean is; will I be connecting through isp.com but my return address will be webhosting.com; will the message appear to be sent from isp.com?

At work, we encounter a lot of problems with 'so called' spoof emails and the fact that a lot of email servers reject them, I want to avoid this happening to me.