I can't help you, but I have to chime in and say that when I got my new phone I cycled through all of the tones listening for the one I considered least obnoxious. I settled on a soft tone that beeps like a microwave or an alarm clock. The tone cuts through, but doesn't jolt me like every other one does. The only thing is that I seem to be the only one who feels this way. EVERYONE comments that my phone is obnoxious, which I find strange coming from those who use a patriotic march as a ring tone (not that I have any problems with patriotic marches, but it's very distracting when it blares out of someone's cube just a few feet away). I guess everyone has their own tastes.

Why do ring tones have to be so obnoxious?