> There's a thin line there between obsession and ...
> whatever that would be.

Passion.

And the line moves, so be careful (for you and her) if you go that route. And if you do, the worst thing you can do right now is push back and emotionally corner/contain her. You have to be creatively positive and emotionally prepared to fail.

For the most part, for safety, I've just learned to let it go (well, in practical terms, but my heart is always a mess).

-brendan