I personally have no problems with norton and have found it to be the best out there of the ones i've tried... My school has a site liscense of the corporate version, so all it has is antivirus, nothing else. I think the days of norton utilities are over, so if you find yourself with all their other ditritus you should uninstall it. I run it on my mobile 900mhz cellery and don't feel that it's slow. The nightly scan, on the other hand, slows it down, but if I'm ever up at 6 in the morning, I just kill it and let it run the next night. If you don't leave your computer on all the time, just leave your computer on one night a week and let it run then when you know you won't need it. Sorry to give you the ansewer you specifically didn't ask for. Macafee is probably your only other choice. It's a lot of work keeping a antivirus program up to date, and speed of response to new viruses is the most important factor.
Matthew