Turns out that we didn't emerge from Malachi's birth struggles as unscathed as we thought. My wife called from the States today and said that his MRI confirms that he has Cerebral Palsy.
Anyone have any experience with this? Success stories? Could use a couple right now.
I'll give you what little personal experience I have with it, gleaned from my former co-worker's son and what exposure I had to my dad's job as a special ed teacher:
The bright side is CP is NOT a progressive condition. As he gets a bit older you'll get a much clearer picture of what you're dealing with, as there is a huge range with CP.
As for my former co-worker's son, he's 17 now, also mildly austistic. I spent more time with him as a toddler, where he was pretty "normal" (as if such a thing exists) but walked and talked a little funny. He now walks and talks a little funny, holds a job, drives, and will graduate high school with other kids his age, and wants to go to school to be a radiology technician. He did go to school year round, starting at the age of two and a half, which may or may not have helped, trying that route couldn't hurt.
As for my father's former students, various disabilities, were a mixed bag of success. Many of them went on to live "normal" lives. The level of "normal" of the outcome had to do mostly with degree of disability and the family they had than anything they were teaching in that school in his opinion. He was teaching ages 15-21, a shop teacher, so small kids weren't his thing.