You're not repulsive Rob and you are right that there are more guys than girls so you have to make your profile stand out.

Fire Fox, it did take quite a while to fill out the application and I have yet to plunk down the membership fee, guess I'm a bit scared. So I can't be contacted nor make contact yet. I have closed the match on a few guys just by what they said.

Robotic, very good suggestions.

Thank you John, I've been having a hard time making myself believe that. Low self-esteem is difficult to overcome.