Do not co-opt other parents into writing, unless you know them very well, nor mention in your letter that other parents agree with you, unless you are absolutely sure of your ground.

Of another set of thoughtful recommendations, this jumps out. Amazing how many folks will agree, commiserate, bitch and moan -- but then disappear when things get uncomfortable.

(Side note: Boxer, just how do I join the chapter? What is the age of eligibility? I think I met the 3rd potential member at CES.)